@ Wounded...I'm working on this detachment process:) If a real room mate ask me the same things, I would help and it not be an issue at all, the details would just be details.

@ Shining... I think I've read the same advice someplace on here, when I felt more detached it was great. Then as he started to seem to be paying more attention to me, talking more, not as distant, then I started to want things to move faster...

I don't think there is an OW anymore, he said he ended it in Feb, basically when I caught him. There was no sex for a while, then once it started back I did get tested and told him I was and he should, he told me the A was not PA, I don't believe him, but he said he did not need to be tested.

I did and it was negative, actually I will be having the STD testing again next week.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW