I am kinda in the same situation as you so I will be watching your thread for the vets advice.
My IMC said I was a rescuer also. It is tough to break the cycle. The feeling of being trapped also rings with me. I hope now that W has moved out and daily contact is non existent I wont feel the urge to rescue her when she complains about things that are aren't going right for her if she ever contacts me.I needed to do that before she moved out but didn't do a good job. I also need the boundaries to keep me out of the rescue roles.
Good luck to you
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
