Starsky, my read (admittedly with no intel as I am not in snoop mode presently) is that A ended (at least temporarily) Monday and W now wants to explore me as plan B/ restart our R talks. That seems pretty clear to me from her txt today. Are you saying I should treat her as still "in" the A and avoid the R talk as there is no positive outcome per your list?

If she's still not truthful about the A when we talk this weekend, there will be no discussion of R, as I will shut it down, but if she is truthful, I want to have a game plan.

Any thoughts on my planned response to her txt of today? Want to be sure I get the message and tone right.

Me: 45 W:43
M: 15, T:21
2 Kids- S-14, D-12
A Started: 10/2013
Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014
A changing, not ending
Start DB'ing 9/2014
Same house, same bed