Last night I was reading on how to do a "live in separAtion" and realized.......technically we are NOT accomplishing that. Our agreement is basically us working on our relationship. The typical rules for separation are much more strict and "cold" in my opinion. Ex: not eating dinner together, not helping the other spouse, basically no tAlking for more than a couple min, constantly going away with no accountability to the other, .....basically avoid each other at all costs I guess we will have to take it a day at a time to see what happens. It's only day 1. The weekend will be where we find out. That is the only time we actually sleep in the same bed typically because of our work schedules. We already established more than a month ago there there is no sex and for the past few weeks I haven't even tried to hold her hand or kiss her. We have only hugged a couple times.
Anyway......
This morning my wife was actually in a good mood. Her and my daughter slept all night and my wife has been pretty sick. She was smiling quite a bit and said if she could sleep like that a few nights in a row, she would probably get better and get over her coughing and exhaustion. Even my daughter was in a very happy mood this morning .
I will post back with updates
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
