too late?

[MrBond]

On a couple of different threads I've seen Sandi talk about two books by Michelle Langley (?). I definitely thinks its worth reading but I was wondering if there is any sensible way to get my W to read them?"

Ha ha. That's a funny statement. The answer is NO. That's controlling and pursuing.

"Anything I've can come up with is controlling (which wanting her to read them is) and is likely ti realky wind her up. At the same time I get the impression it will help."

Nope. In fact it will push her farther away because you're forcing her (yes that's what it is) to read something that she doesn't believe.

Don't do it.