To DB or not to DB, is it really a question?

[Shakspr]

I would like to add, briefly, that reading the infidelity and previously ignored portions of the MLC stuff in DR was too painful for one sitting last night. But I did get some of it. Thanks, MrBond.

I suppose I keep coming back to my W's belief that the divorce gets her clear, legally and emotionally, to have the new R. She won't just go HAVE the A. After all, that would be "wrong"-er! That's mind reading, I know. But she's certainly done it before. And her words to me yesterday, "I was emotionally vulnerable, I was lonely" are right out of the justification script.

labug, I am thinking about your question, as I want to give it a thorough answer.