advice needed - please help

[stacey9]

Just an update - H has consulted his L to start 'moving things forward'. I asked him what he meant and he said he cannot afford to keep paying mortgage. I asked what the L advised and he said he wanted to gather information regarding the finances and how things would be split. I asked if he wanted a divorce and he said yes. He never flinched, hesitated or looked sad. He just said yes as if it was the most obvious answer in the world. Which of course it it. For him.

I am gutted. I wanted him to look a little doubtful or hurt. But of course he is moving forward with his new life and OW and wants me out of it completely.

Husband's elderly aunt visited me last week and said to my sister afterwards that she couldn't understand what could make him walk out on such a lovely family.

I have not posted on here much over the last few weeks, but I've still been reading all the posts and keeping up to date with what's happening in your lives.

Things were going really great for me, I've had a couple of weekends away with friends and have things to look forward to.

I am just not ready to give up on my M. Is there any hope left?