Granb8te I think the 'if' sounds very promising. I would be delighted with that.

And I totally get the reaching out thing - I get that all the time. Sometimes I try and distract myself so I don't actually physically touch his face or arm. If I did I'm sure he would recoil in horror.


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014