Had a nice dinner with W. Kept things light, casual and fun. Did not talk about R. Focused on work, friends, current events, etc. lots of validation from me, words of affirmation, listening, looking into her eyes, etc.
She said "this was nice" at the end of dinner, and when i dropped her off at her car. She gave me a kiss, hug, and kiss at the end and a "talk soon".
Tried to stay up beat, pma, chill (180), embrace silence (180), listen (180), etc.
Low point was when i asked about a couple we know was having probs and the H is having an affair with a coworker i said " work affairs never work out " and i realized my subtext may have been obvious. Also told her about an expression i had learned recently: the grass is greener where you water it. She liked that. Still feel dumb for bringing up that convo.
