Need help. Scared, confused, and hurting.

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It's ok to apologize for being rude. Just dont apologize for making her stand on her own 2 feet.


I hate this not being able to call BS when I see it. So I made her go get them anyway. An hour late and she had to pay a fee.

That sounds like you are punishing her.

Let go and detach a little bit. You cant change her, the only thing you can change is you.