Just a word of advice, since I'm in the exact same spot as you. We are moving too fast and I read that you felt you guys were moving too fast. Continue to focus on you. These past 3 weeks, I stopped focusing on me and I blew it last night. For now Clark hasn't run, but he will if I keep going the direction we are.
I let Clark control my life the last 2 weeks. I should have placed more boundaries, slowed him down and told him no more. I was so excited to have him home, that now we are headed the wrong direction. Make your changes stick. Don't feel pressured by Mr. Gritty. Remember he is still going through a MLC. Protect your heart.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile