I don't want to stop, it's not just for him:)

I'm just thinking this may be making it harder for me to detach?
But I do feel like since that has become more regular again, it has helped ...a little in a way. When we 1st started back having sex on a regular, I was able to have it without expectations...then the "dance" started and I relaxed....and BAM! EMOTIONS took over.

The link about detachment, WOW it's really deep.


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW