If giving her everything she wants did not work in the marriage do you think it will work to get her back? I would suggest that you end her a letter or such and explain that you no long have the funds to fund her extravagant life style. Tell her from this day forward she will be responsible for all expenses she incurs including credit card purchase. That you will provide what the law has determined in child support as required.
I understand how you probably feel about this. I feel the same way. It is hard to cut them off and make them see reality.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"