Ok, thanks for your inputs. So the question is, right now, what (if anything) should be said or done?
The OM has moved away and for the foreseeable future, he will be seeing my W, at most, once every two weeks.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!