Sorry if that seems reactionary. Youre hitting close to home on a lot of things MrBond. I think I need that.

One thing you said was that I didn't care. That's absolutely not true. What is true and I didn't realise is that everything I did/said showed that I just cared way more about me.

And there is something I can turn into a 180 and really work to change about myself.

25yearsMLC talked about volunteering - that might have the double benefit of helping me make it not about me while at the same time be a big part in GAL'g


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress