I bolded that part of my post with the intent to indicate that I paraphrased it from a book called "Detach and Survive: a guide for the wives of MLC men", but in my edits I accidentally left the citation out, and now I can't edit the post.

I am not a plagiarist, I swear.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R