My relationship with my son . Talking to him , taking an interest in his hobbies , watching sport with him, getting him to help around the house with housework, controlling my anger so when he doesn't help I don't end up shouting at him, spending time with him , hugging him to show I love him and also telling him I love him , asking him about college when he gets home and also saying goodbye when he leaves . Taking him to work and picking him up if I can. These are simple things to do and in the last few weeks our relationship has really grown .
The house needing work, started a real de clutter of the house and loft . Selling what I can and doing lots of runs to the dump. Contacting different trades to get prices for jobs that need doing. Only stumbling block is money as can't remortgage to get money as W name still on deeds etc.
Me needing work. Going to circuits with son and trying to loose weight . Going to start running with my son soon . Keep shaving regularly , keep getting my haircut , don't wear track suit bottoms when outside of house unless doing sporting activities . Got to find a dentist . Trying to not bite my finger nails . Being more accommodating to the kids with regards taking them places and not being an obstacle to them having a good time .
And my biggest one is ACTUALLY DOING THINGS . I've got to stop just thinking and start doing . So I'm going to write a list of all the things I should be going and start going them rather than having them all in my head .
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Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
