Originally Posted By: Maybell
B-V2, the best way to get people to comment on your postings is to visit their threads too. Even as a newbie you have valuable perspective on what you see in people's postings, and if you don't, then just saying you were there and offering support can get people interested in you. I don't have many men visiting my thread (which is super long and overly wordy, so just catch up where you are!!) but I do find their perspective useful just to help me understand gender differences.

You seem to have absorbed the teachings in the postings pretty well with the journey, making yourself a person only a fool would leave, etc. Know it, but go on your journey and let yourself be surprised to see what you learn. Don't worry about asking for 2x4s. They aren't the only way to learn. Sometimes just seeing yourself from someone else's eyes can be surprising and thought-provoking.

Hope you're doing OK. You're in for a wild ride. smile


Hi Maybell, thank you for your follow up and I definitely will visit several other people's threads (have just started to do so).
I'm doing OK and can always do better, and am aware that my journey has just started and some way to go still (understatement). A large part of the wild ride it up to me/us, isn't it?


Me:47 W:45
T:18 M:14
No children
BD: Jun 2014 INILWY and want to divorce
W filed Divorce: Jul 2014
W moved out: Aug 2014