Just wondering... does anyone have any advice or BTDT on whether or not I should pursue the idea of finding out if H has been unfaithful for many years vs just since his MLC started? I'm sure some of you have some experience here...


Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together