To DB or not to DB, is it really a question?

[Shakspr]

Labug...I will eventually hold my head high. But you are confusing me. You seem to imply that my question is invalid. I agree with your basic premise, but your wording hurts me because it has a distinctive "throw in the towel" flavor. What DR/DB technique are you encouraging me to use? The EA is a symptom but it is distinctly her choice.

I am not ready to give up all hope yet, not by a long shot. And that certainly means I have plenty to work on - myself.

I'll leave this here, misguided as it may be, as a warning. Get some sleep folks or you'll post crazy like me.