Dealing with WAW part 7

[pilot]

labug just so I am clear on what bothers you...

My W has a higher net worth than I do right now.
My W probably earns about the same as I do right now.
100% of my W's income goes to W (ok, so she buys food for the kids 2 weeks a month)
80% of my income goes to W, kids, and debt service. Yea, I am guilty of spending about 20% on myself. Selfish of me to eat.
My W has perfect credit because I have made sure bills in her name have always been paid on time.
My credit is shot, my plane got repo'd a few weeks ago, I have hundreds of thousands in deficiencies and liens.
The debt in her name is less than 10% of the debt in my name.
She lives in her own place, while I chose to remain living at my dad's for the moment to save money (to make sure I could keep sending it to her).
She pays nothing towards childcare, schools, health, or clothing for the kids.
I pay 100% of it.

And now that I decide to stop paying the credit cards in her name, I am somehow the bad guy?

Just making sure I am clear on what irks you.....