To DB or not to DB, is it really a question?

[Shakspr]

Labug. I agree. But is it a factor in whether I use After LRT or simply GAL/180/PMA til the cows come home? That's a straight question - I really don't know what to do.

Factored in is what I expect to be a cooperative rather than parallel co-parenting approach. We don't disagree on the basics. And I'm just going to have to swallow the fact that my STBX is going to do things I don't like regarding her OM, eventually exposing my children to him if they get serious.

I certainly will get a first-hand opportunity to see how her previous exes felt about me.