I thought you said that she was having a PA also? What confirmation did you find?
And to be honest, you haven't experienced anything different than what everyone here has. It took 3 years before my W even started to talk to me. Same as the majority of the people who have saved their M here.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.