" I'm not trying to hurt my W. I simply don't trust her to make good decisions for them right now."
The biggest thing you are going to have to understand that this is between you and your W. She's not doing anything to hurt your kids. The decisions she makes for them are the right ones to her. Just because you don't agree to them, it doesn't mean that your decisions are better than hers.
She's a woman who is looking for happiness without you right now. Just like how you want to find happiness WITh her. It doesn't make her love the kids any less. She is entitled to her feelings and how she expresses them to the kids just like you do.
Just want to repost this because it's so good.
Neither of you is lilly white in this. You have your own trangressions.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
