Shining I am so not an expert in the detachment department except I do know it takes time. I'm a year in and I don't think I'm even close- but when I look back I've come a long way. Sometimes I feel like an onion- peel away a layer and detach from that. Then go through the whole grief cycle and detach at the next layer.
For those of us that are fixers and used to " making things happen" no matter what- it's d@mn hard to wait in something to occur and have no ability toive it along. I get it. Can't help because I'm not there yet either. But I can walk beside you!!
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
