Ha!! I have no doubt in my mind, you would have a following...a gaggle of guys, even. I'm glad you recognize it, and it's NEVER bad to think or say!
My H kept telling me (even up to last Friday when he brought up the D word) that I'm very beautiful on the outside....he used to say I'm equally beautiful inside, but Friday, he spewed, "you're very beautiful on the outside. But I've seen your insides." LOL. He's a doozy......yup.
Yeah...I get what you mean....are they fools for leaving? Or, being the sane ones....we must be the fools for staying!! (No, I'm kidding....uR puts it so well in my thread).