LOL! The funny thing is, when we were talking about how our R had hit a "bump" I had thoughts in my head that went a little something like this: "he's crazy to leave you! If he leaves you there will be a line of men at your door the next day!" which people tell me is true, I'm a good person and I'm pretty attractive (gosh, that sounds bad but if I can feel good about ANYTHING these days I'll take it!) and fun to be around. The sad part is, as soon as he decided he didn't want me anymore those half-joking, self defense motivated thoughts of the past were replaced by "even if that's true, I still only want H". What a fool! (wait, am I talking about me or him? laugh )


Me- 40 H- 41
S8, D5, S4
M 19 y T 23
Bomb drop 6/2013
H asked for/filed for D 9/2014
22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together