We went over the fact that I was going to stay with a friend for a couple weeks but I wasn't comfortable putting my daughter through that unless it was completely unavoidable. I work night shift, wife works days. Only time we see each other for long is weekends and I can stay in spare room. Basically we agreed to not physically seperate and just do what we want when we want with no expectations other than coordinate with each other about my daughter. Seems counselor doesn't understand how it will benefit and wife feels seperation , even temp, would help her decide. However, she agreed that I have been doing OK the past couple weeks but her concerns are its not permanent. She is more than willing to try a "seperation" while in same house and work out exact details as we go. Counselor was confused but said if we feel that's what we want to do, then try it.
me-42 w-33 d-3 together-6 m-4yr 6/1/14-w check out 6/15/14-EA? 8/1/14-mc 9/1/14-IDLY-started DBing 9/15/14-w suggest separation 10/17/14 wife is done 12/13/2014 - wife move out me file 1/1/15
