Do you have a parenting schedule? She is not 'free' to do whatever she wants-- she has children that she is responsible for, at least for part of the time.

Set up a parenting schedule if you don't have one.

It's also a bit strange to me how much you seem to talk with her about the A, the OM, the OMW. I'm not sure why that is something you discuss with her at all. (For ex, why is the OMW part of your signature line?? I don't see how that is relevant.)

You're in a tough spot, that's for sure, as she seems to flaunt her A in front of you. But you do have a choice in your own behavior and how you respond and act towards your W.


Me 38 H 40
D 3
T 8 M 6
BD 10/2013