Mindsin,

I am in the midst of confusion myself at the moment, A very good vet is helping me try to understand DBing better. I was/am getting a lot of it wrong. I need to stop what I am doing and revamp.

What I think MrBond is trying to say, correct if I am wrong MrBond please, While we as LBH can't control what our WAW do and of course, they think they are free to do whatever they want.

They are to a certain point allowed to do anything, the problem comes in when it starts take away our dignity as men and the disrespect is allowed to fester. If we don't stand up for ourselves we will never be respected by our WAW and without respect there is no love and without love there is no chance of R.

If I am off base, sorry but that is my understanding.


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014