Claire, if it's a short apology letter, and you say that you don't have any expectations from it but that you need to do it in order to move on, then I think *in your instance that it would be helpful.

You're really not doing it for him, right? But just for yourself?

I'm so sorry for all that you have been missing. I wish I could wave a wand and make things right for you. But he's clearly a fool, you are worth making an effort for. May you be loved with all the strength with which you give love.

Whether it turns out to be him or someone else.



*for all the newbies reading this thread and thinking it's a good idea, IT'S NOT FOR YOU. This is for Claire whose situation is different.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.