Chin up, SS06, you're just having a bad day. We all do at some point. You will have better days. Even though Banana Republic may not be your first choice, it's nice to be wanted, and just think of how fabulous you'll look while GALing in your new wardrobe.
Also, be patient. I was feeling the same way you are a few days ago. It was all I could do not to reach out to my H to spend time together as a family. But I didn't. And you know what? He called the next day and invited me to dinner as a family.
Then, at the dinner? He just talked about himself the whole time anyway, and I was able to feel that I would be fine with or without him (esp. since he's so self-absorbed).
Bottom line: He's not the H you knew. You may get a chance to know this new guy, maybe not. Hang in there!
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!