You read the books right? My position hasn't flip flopped. You're just not getting it.
This goes along the lines of validation. You owned up to what you did was wrong which was fine. You're supposed to give support to your W. Fine. BUT that support doesn't go to encourage bad behavior. You are to UNDERSTAND what got her to the point she's at now, and you validate her feelings, however you're not supposed to take that support it and apply it to an A which is wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right.
That guilt that you're showing isn't being utilized correctly. You need to show remorse and validation of how she feels but now to the extent of actually encouraging her A, which you are doing by condemning the OMW and giving her a pass to go out with the OM when she feels like it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
