Mrbond - I'm a little confused as to your stance in my situation. I think back to the very first time I posted here 3 months ago and you jumped all over me for only thinking about myself, and not the pain my W went through to get to this point.

You made that point, and I eventually was able to begin seeing things through my W's PoV. I overlooked her A, and addressed myself and my numerous A's over the years.

Now it seems that you've flipped positions, and you're saying that I'm being supportive of her A, which I am not.

When I've shown little guilt (in the beginning), you criticized me. Now that I'm showing too much guilt, you're criticizing me again.

Perhaps you can help clarify your PoV on this.

M: 15 years
BD: 6/25/14
EA/PA: starts 5/14/14
11/30/14 - A ends
5/15/15 - D is finalized.
11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!