Per the agreement we have shared custody with the kids staying with me for 5 nights and 2 with her. Should the kids call because of a crisis I have the right to go in and get them. She has the right to participate in decisions, but I have final say concerning the kids.
What I want for the kids is to know at the end of the day that I was there for them and that I did not try to destroy their mother. They can draw their own conclusions about their mothers behavior.
I don't know if she will be able to co parent. I think I have to go through this exercise to determine that. Ultimately if the counselor says it is not possible at least I have made the attempt and followed the court order. I have found the easiest way to get done with these state agencies and the court is to work with them and follow their directions.My wife does not seem to understand this and it has and probably will cost her.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
