Thanks Job & Wounded.

I will read the cliff notes on detachment. Going to read them right now.

I'm also thinking I may need to avoid sex with him for a while...I think it may be making it harder for me to detach. I hate to stop, this seems to be sometimes all that is left.

And I think (mind reading) that he may use this as a test to see if I'm still available.

Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW