H's MLC #5

[woundedfool]

First (and apologies if this is redundant/has been posted before, but the livestrong foundation has great cliff notes on detachment: http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

They really helped me. I would read them until they were seared into your memory.

I did remind him its s14 game against rivals this weekend and s14 might play up with the JV instead of freshman team. H said yeah he knows but if he can get the weekend off from work he is going to funeral and or college football game.

That is the only part I would have not addressed, it may have come across as nagging, or telling him what to do. He needs to suceed or fail with S14 on his own.

I will work HARD on detaching the heart, but leaving the door open (for a while) in case H decides to really come back!

Just leave the door alone, you should not feel (or act) as if it open or shut. Dive deep into detachment, and you will find this becomes easier.