Read the 180 rules. Stick to it. Do not contact, there are no kids so this should be easier. It is hard but it is for YOUR sanity. Hit the gym and GAL. Once you genuinely focus on you she will notice and you will benefit no matter the outcome. If your effort isn't genuine she will know and you will only hurt yourself.

I recommend the DB book. At this point you don't have a marriage so focus on you and hopefully you'll both get to the point where you can try. That's where I'm at now Nd it has been hell. Hang in there and find yourself, you can come out of this better no matter the outcome.

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M:35 WW:32
Dated 8 years
M: 2
BD 6/12/14
S: 7/29/14
No kids
Reconcile: 9/25/14
Moved back: 10/7/14