You did very well w/the recent conversation. I know it's hard to look and treat them as roommates because your heart is still trying to tell you that it's your h and hoping against hope, that he will suddenly revert back to the many you love. It takes time to detach and learn not to react to everything they say or do, but you'll get there. Don't be too hard on yourself if you snap up the bait every once in a while. We all have done it.
As you can see, his priorities are rather messed up. He'd rather go to a game and visit w/old friends, then actually go to the funeral. He can't face mortality and yes, his friend's death will remind him that life's clock is ticking.
Leave the door ajar, but continue moving forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
