To DB or not to DB, is it really a question?

[Shakspr]

Thank you, raliced. I am slowing down, and will initiate no more convo with W for at least 48 hours about anything other than who is making dinner.

It's not the worst day of my life. That was 8/6. In reality, at least this makes what she had been telling me make more sense. I can cope. I will forgive.

That's the thing, up to now I have been letting her drive the D train, one lawyer, uncontested divorce. So I must make some decisions before we tell the kids. Same basic script. But they may not be living elsewhere 9 days a week. I'm not trying to hurt my W. I simply don't trust her to make good decisions for them right now.