And another thing, when conversing with her, do not act angry...put on a good act, be evasive, tell her that you need to start doing other things since you are separated. Even if she loses it, keep your cool and keep DBing...take your kid out without her, ya'll can have plenty of fun on your own. If she balks at that, again, tell her that you have been thinking about what she has said, and the overall healthiest thing for everyone is to do your own thing...you cannot save her, you cannot DO enough for her to make her want you right now...her choice, so go on and start living. She is going to try to get a reaction from you, as in the past...just be prepared for it and do not act on it.