Mindsin - pt. 4 (the countdown begins)

[mindsin]

You DO treat her like the enemy. I"m amazed you can't see it. You defend your W like a mindless sidekick and make the OMW seem like the bad one.

Maybe you can point out specific things I've wrote that would give you this impression, because I don't see it.

"It's so difficult because if I defend the OMW, my W sees it as me showing allegiance to some other woman."

Who cares?

My W does. Loyalty is a big thing. If I can show her that I am at least making an attempt to be loyal to her in this situation, I think it will only be to my benefit.

So you are going to do whatever your W wants you to?

No. I have my limits and my boundaries. She knows what they are. She's free to do whatever she wants. So am I.

Total BS. You just wanted to see if she was with the OM. You've said it yourself in the past. Just be honest.

Ok, now you're mind reading.

My initial "peek" was to see if she was ok, and to maybe get a clue as to where she was. It had nothing to do with the OM. There have been no phone calls to/from the OM since last Wednesday, but there have been text messages. On the surface, you could say there were no phone calls because they're together, and that would make sense. However, I am giving my W the benefit of the doubt here when she told me that she is taking this trip by herself to get away from everything and everyone -- including the OM.

That was all mindreading on your part. You don't know why she did it. You really haven't learned much about human nature.

No, it was me reading her face and the tone of her speech. I know plenty about human nature, but thanks for your concern.