In terms of your 180s, can you list SPECIFICALLY what issues she had with you in terms of the M and what actions you have done to change them? The changes do take time for the WAS to "believe". That's why you need patience at this stage of the game.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.