Guess what? She knows you are miserable and she knows she is having her cake and eating it too. Quote: "Well maybe I wil spend it with my wife and kids if I am lucky.." You've got to stop that way of thinking, and I can promise you it comes across as totally needy and personally, I think that she sees that in you. You need to really work on becoming your own person and stop putting all of your identity into your W...been there, done that, and I will never fall for that again. I don't know what else to tell you here...but until you really put forth an EFFORT to DB, your sitch will probably stay the same. From what I have read, the minute she wants to do something, you jump...and then you are miserable the next day. Think about what these people are telling you...
