First post-help needed-wife affair

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sorry to hear you are going through this. What has been working for me to feel better is reading as much as possible...going through forums and also reflecting on myself and what kind of a person I am. Chasing after her will do no good. I have been on good terms with my H now since I am starting to treat him like a friend. I act happy, well i am happy most of the time . But, your wife will need space, it seems like. Anything you do or say could push her even further so I would be very careful on what I say to her.