"You are the one making the choices that have you stuck where you are right now...YOU! It isn't your W or your family, job or anyone else. You have the choice to actually dig in and get serious with DB. The WHEN, WHY and HOW are completely up to you...cuase if you are waiting for an epiphany, miracle or lightning strike, well, you are going to be waiting one HE!! of a long time."

Z is SERIOUS when she says this. This is for ALL of us to learn and live. TODAY. We have to make our lives happen, not the WAS who do not know what they want!