Alright, I'm putting this one to a vote- W just txted me with some banter about my trip and ended it with "looking forward to a nice weekend together"

So is this fantasy land, or have I now been identified as plan B?

I responded with "thanks (to the trip part)- see you Friday" but now am second guessing an email about mediation dates- which might be seen as me shutting down any R talk.

So do I stay the course or instead hold off the mediation email and see if she more explicitly raises R? Personally this seems way to soon for R talk as she should still be hurting from OM still, but don't want to blow whatever chance Imay have here. My gut says gently raise mediation in a day or two- will think about this during my 8 hour flight.

Me: 45 W:43
M: 15, T:21
2 Kids- S-14, D-12
A Started: 10/2013
Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014
A changing, not ending
Start DB'ing 9/2014
Same house, same bed