H's MLC #4

[woundedfool]

I can't speak about detachment while living together. So maybe some others can chime in with better expierence.

But that never stopped me from throwing my $0.02 in the pot:

So he wants me to invite him places?

Sounds like it to me. Although it is conditionally (he wants to know who and where).

If it was me: I would say: "Hey I am meeting Jim, Ed, Sally and Sue at Applebees... You are welcome to come along.

Like I said this back and forth now has me really confused.

The confusion goes away with detachment & GAL's (see my above post), keep working on them. They will not happen by osmosis, you need to put in the WORK.