Shakespr, wait and think things through. I think you must confront her, but not until you know you can be calm. Have a plan. You do not have to confront her today. This is a dangerous place right now.
Suspicion is hard enough, but confirmation is so tough. I know the pain and anger and despair. I said things I wish I hadn't.
M:54, H:55 T:33, M:27 12/13 BD: EA 01/14 BD: PA, H leaves 03/14 H & OW break up 05/14 H says he will file for D 08/14 H initiates D 09/14 H wants to R 12/14 Still bungling our way through R