Job
Neutral? Hmmm,,,So when H reaches out, so I stay neutral in my mind and emotions but not in my actions? Like H wanted to watch a movie, should I have declined? Are watch the movie but watch it while in my emotions and mind, I'm watching with my roommate not my H?

H has mentioned several times lately lil comments about my social life, again came up yesterday so I ask him if he wanted to be invited, told H when I did invite you always responded NO or had some excuse. I said do you want me to invite you places or not, H said he might go it depends on where and who else is going. So he wants me to invite him places?

Neutral...do I not invite him? If he ask to spend time with me do I say no?

Like I said this back and forth now has me really confused.


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW